Pastoring

1 Timothy 4:13-14 CEB: “Until I arrive [writes Paul], pay attention to public reading, preaching, and teaching. Don’t neglect the spiritual gift in you that was given through prophecy when the elders laid hands on you.”

Acts 20:28 CEB: “Watch yourselves and the whole flock, in which the Holy Spirit has placed you as supervisors, to shepherd God’s church, which he obtained with the death of his own Son.”

The spiritual gift of pastoring equips you with the capacity and compassion to provide spiritual care, guidance and direction for individuals and communities. This gift blends relational attentiveness with spiritual discernment, enabling you to accompany others in their journeys of faith with patience, wisdom and humility. This shepherding gift facilitates your care and concern for the spiritual well-being of others. You are often driven to offer encouragement, presence and support in ways that help people grow into fuller expressions of their faith. This gift is not limited to formal leadership roles and doesn’t require ordination; it frequently shows up in everyday relationships where individuals naturally create spaces of belonging, safety and spiritual growth.

At its core, pastoring is a deeply relational gift that activates a nurturing presence centered on long-term accompaniment and care. Those with this gift are attuned to the needs, struggles and hopes of others, often recognizing when someone needs guidance, accountability or simply to be seen and heard. Pastors/shepherds help others stay rooted in faith, guiding them through both seasons of joy and times of uncertainty with steady care and compassion. Those with this gift show up in their communities through attentive connection and relationship with individuals and through concern for the overall spiritual health and well-being of the whole.

Some ways in which the gift of pastoring might show up in your spiritual and communal life:

  • Visiting homebound community members to provide presence and a listening ear.
  • Offering a listening ear and comforting presence to a grieving friend.
  • Hosting a comforting space for reflection and centering.
  • Visiting a homebound community member and providing them communion through the ELCA’s “sending of Holy Communion” option.

Looking for more opportunities? We encourage you to reach out to your local synod. Connect, collaborate and co-create with peers through the ELCA Leadership Network.